Monday, July 04, 2005

Make-up... Sex... Relationships... and Harry Potter...


Make-up...

wala lng, natuwa kasi ako sa officemate ko, pinansin nyang nakamakeup ako today. nothing fancy naman, eye makeup lng hehehe. actually, nakakaaliw ang mga lalaki. kasi sila pa ung nakakapansin. last wednesday, nakaragged clothes lng ako pero nagkaeye-makeup ako, nagulat din ako nung mapansin sya nung bestfriend kong lalaki. mga ndi kasi sanay sa kin na nakamakeup. wala lng. nashare ko lng.

Sex... Relationships...

hmm... i don't know how to start on this. last friday night, we had some gurly session sa may starbucks leviste. I'm not claiming that I am such an expert on these topics, nagkataon lng na hindi ako ang nasa hot seat. what's my view on this...

hmmm, relationship is not all about sex. and sex doesn't necessarily means a relationship (a true and lasting one for that matter).

let's all be mature about this. I am not an advocate of pre-marital sex, nor I am against it. My stand on this is that when it is presented to you, it's always up to you whether to do it or not. And once you have decided to do it, you have to be prepared for the consequences (untimely pregnancy, unrequited love, trauma, disease and so on... and so forth).

having sex doesn't mean having a relationship, for relationship is another issue. having a relationship is no longer about yourself, it is already about two people... you and your partner.
are you ready to share your space?

are you ready to give way?
are you ready to accept things your partner is offering (or is NOT offering) to you?
are you ready to be stupid just for the sake of making THE RELATIONSHIP work?

... some people are lucky enough to find their THE RELATIONSHIP before doing the IT thing.
... some people are not so lucky to find themselves doing IT prior to THE RELATIONSHIP.
... some people are stupid enough to be doing IT without THE RELATIONSHIP.
... some people are just plain clueless... and I pity them...

san ako dyan? dunno.
the "plain clueless"?
nah, I don't think so!


Harry Potter...

I'm on my third book na ulit. Nakahanap na din ako ng taong bibili ng Book 6 para mahiram ko. hehehe.

last saturday, i bought a new book, yung magical world of harry potter. nakalagay dun ung mga bagay bagay kung san san pinagkukuha ni J.K. Rowling ung mga names sa HP series. haven't started on it yet. saka na.


2 Comments:

Anonymous Anonymous said...

it's not pre-marital sex if you don't plan to get married. cheers.

-icarus

10:12 AM  
Blogger binx said...

unrelated to your post:

hello joyce, sorry ha! sobrang dami ko pang ginawa sa ofc. kulang na kasi sa oras. di ko kasi machecheck ung ofc mail ko sa singapore kaya pinilit kong tapusin lahat. i hope to meet you soon though. take care!

7:14 PM  

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